Being vulnerable…
When we go through literature on psychology, spirituality, it feels like human being’s ultimate goal is happiness. And the easier way to reach this destination is through self-love. Such articles have lot of suggestions — count your blessings, be satisfied with what you have, stay away from negative people, spend time on things which you love.
But unconsciously I opted for a different path — to be vulnerable. Meaning to expose myself to get hurt emotionally. If staying away from people who hurts us is a main teaching in psychology, shall I stop being vulnerable? Why am I allowing more people to talk about me? Why am I giving them chances to point fingers at me? Will I be happy like this? Shall I start opting for back seat? If I know happiness is what I want — I should just enjoy the warmth of things I have.
Instead I chose to be vulnerable. Though it is a tough path — there are advantages more than just happiness in this — one will learn more, there will be a sense of purpose, a dire desire to excel, no fear about comfort zone and at the end — not sure about happiness, but there will be a satisfaction of thriving through a difficult ride.
What is your choice?
